This is where I will post my rules for conduct. What you will need to do and be expected to have done BEFORE contacting me saying you wish to serve me. The Do's and Do Not's of worshipping me, and making me happy. This page will then obviously be the MOST helpful for those wishing to serve me and please me. MEMORIZE it and make this page your LIFE. Is that clear? You think you want to serve me. You think you are worthy to do so. Are you now? Can you handle my expectations? Can you be what I want? Time will tell. Your actions will tell. Words mean nothing to me. Actions mean everything and I will base my perceptions of you on WHAT you do, not what you tell me, over the passage of time. RULES 1. Get to know who I am, and what I expect. I'm strict and formal at times, and irreverant at others. I expect sterling behavior and obedience at ALL times, whether or not I am in the vicinity or not. Just because I am not paying attention or away doesn't mean you can do the things that you KNOW I fully disapprove of. That alone will tell me you aren't worthy. It's easy to find me, and if you are capable of intelligent conversation and have a good sense of humor, chances are we will enjoy our discussions. 2. You want to know me... READ MY DOMAIN. Sit in a chat room and watch me. Talk with me, watch my interactions with others. Read my posts in the numerous groups and message boards that I'm a member of. Then, if it seems that we might perhaps be compatible, contact me. Then we shall see. *IF* you please me I will decide to continue or not. 3. Be honest and open at ALL times. 4. Don't have expectations other than to be treated in a sane, safe, and consensual manner. I do what *I* want when *I* want to. Your expectations mean squat to me, nor will I take hints and act on them, *unless* it suits me to do so at that time. I will dominate you how I wish to when I wish to. You are not in control... so stop trying to be. Obviously this is only going to occur when we have progressed to that stage, and have negotiated the basics. 5. Obey me. And be quick about it. If you have problems with obedience... GO SOMEWHERE ELSE. 6. Be honest, have integrity, and be loyal. Manners COUNT. BIG time. Commitment is a huge deal to me. If you are incapable of being stable or don't know what you want, then do not seek to serve me, or any dominant, for that matter until you have a basic clue what your goals are. 7. Don't waste my time. 8. Serve me with honor, dignity, grace, manners, and obedience. Make yourself a quality slave I would be proud to own. GUIDELINES FOR PLEASING ME Be polite. Be obedient with a strong drive and need to please, serve and be abused. Decent spelling, grammar, and the ability to handle an intelligent conversation OUTSIDE (though intelligent conversation of a BDSM nature is cool too) of BDSM will score huge points with me. I will give you assignments and commands to ascertain whether or not you are obedient and willing to serve. They aren't difficult tasks. But how you handle them tells me a lot about who you are, what kind of human and submissive you are and if you will be compatible to my tastes. I expect them to be done. If your lives are complicated or for some reason you are unable to complete a task within the time frame I give you, I expect and demand that you keep me appraised of any difficulty you may have in completing my orders. If I give you a task to complete and you blindly say you will do it, even knowing there is no possible way for it to be completed, and I am led to believe there are no issues preventing you from doing so, and it is not done, I will consider that a lie. If you tell me something will be done at a certain time as if there is no conflict of time, then expect me to view that as a lie. You said you would do something, and you did not. Therefore you did not obey, and you lied, as you SAID this would be done. I will not tolerate this on any level. I may extend your time, I may decide I want you to fail, and make you do it anyway. Do not assume I will care if there is a conflict, that is *your* problem, not mine. But I expect to be kept informed of my property's status, whether or not I decide to take that into account and change my decision is for me to say. Lies mean you are banned from my presence. Membership to my website can and will be canceled. I will want to know your weaknesses. ALL of them. I do not wish to battle for information, or coax it out or play a game for it. You want to serve me? Then you hand me the keys to your engine, and let me play with your gears as I rev you up or let you idle. I want to know your fantasies, your fears, your dreams, visions, what makes you hot and what makes you tremble. What you are seeking. I what to know everything that makes you tick so I can bend you to my will efficiently and without breaking a sweat. I want you to write me an email letting me into your mind and soul as a small offering, surrendering to my will even as you fear it. I want to know what you like and what you hate. I want ALL those delicious buttons at my disposal. No exceptions. What I do with that information is up to me, don't expect to receive what you like or want when you want it. I will control you when I determine you are someone I *wish* to control. You may be *screening* me, but you are being screened as well. I will not assume control of any jerk that decides to IM me. That is held for those that want it enough to earn it. You have other Mistresses? You want me to order you to drop them? Guess what schmuck, I won't. One, it is what you want, I will not be manipulated by a player. I do as *I* want, not what *you* would like me to do. Two, I shouldn't *have* to. You want to serve me? Then you will need to show MY pleasure comes BEFORE yours. Do you *really* think I would be pleased to know you are seeing another dominant besides me while asking to be considered by me? I want submissives that anticipate my needs and what will please me, and those that are willing to put me first and prove it. I know, I know, you jerkoffs think it will demonstrate my utter control. Hrmph. That is a sneaky way to try to have me do something to suit *you* and fulfill your sorry little fantasy. Don't think I can't spot that crap a mile away. If I find out? Don't expect dramatics. I will not get angry, I am in control of not only you, but *myself*. You don't merit enough to get me angry, I will simply disown you. Coldly, quickly, and without emotion and most likely with a yawn. I will not order you to drop someone you are seeing, I'll simply drop *you* if you show me you don't put me first ... on your own. I don't need to force you, I have enough boys licking at my heels that I can afford to pick and choose. I'll throw you back, no problem, your loss. I am looking for obedient submissivess that want to be controlled and be under MY control, that aren't looking for games, or looking for someone to fish out their little secrets or resist my influence. I want and expect total surrender. Don't expect me to do anything at all until I see that you are willing to do that. That doesn't mean because you repeat "I am ready now Mistress" over and over. I will see you are ready when you do as I tell you. DO obey me. DO have exquisite manners. DO want to serve me with loyalty, honesty, style, honor, integrity and class. DO want to please me. Doing things I like is the best way to gain my attention. DO want to make me your priority. DO want to pamper me and spoil me. DO want to be controlled. DON'T get on my bad side. I will NOT be kind, there is a good chance you will be written off for good. DON'T lie. DON'T play games. DON'T top from the bottom or try to manipulate me. I will drop you quicker than you can believe. DON'T assume you will EVER have sex with me or that I will EVER do ANYthing of a sexual nature with you. DON'T want a monogamous relationship. I will never want to be with *just* you. You will not be able to convince me of this, and it isn't because I haven't met the right slave. I have, I simply do not WANT that. I turn them loose and tell them to seek elsewhere. You will be no different. DON'T expect me to share my private life, what I do all day, or any specifics of my life that I do not decide to share on my own. It isn't your business what I do all day. Your business is making sure *you* are pleasing *me*, that is where your focus should be, on what you can do for me to make my day and life easier. You may ask ... just realize I may tell you it isn't your business, and that will be your answer, and that I will fully expect you to deal with that gracefully.